I realized that I had given my personal power and "WHY" to a relationship that was destroying me and my life. The hardest part of this fact was accepting that I made that choice, I wasn't a victim, I was a willing participant. If I was going to make changes and regain control of my life, I had to make some serious changes. The good news is that you can regain your power as quickly as you can give it away!
So what steps did I take:
- Identify "WHY!"
- Identify all the NEGATIVES in your life.
- No purpose or goals
- Television (The average American watches more than a month of TV every year!! Get rid of your TV, start a part time business, and work only a quarter of that time previously spent in front of the television...Would that make a difference?)
- Your own lies
- Your phone
- People who encourage you to stay where you are or support your BS!
- And, so on...
- Eliminate these NEGATIVES and REPLACE them with new positive habits.
- Create your Top 6 Goals for the next twelve weeks and twelve months.
- Create a trusted group of people and mentors.
These steps guided me to the biggest transformation in my life. For me, I hit a spot in my life where I was on auto-pilot, going through the motions and accepting. Luckily, Christina jolted me out of this mode, and then I took these steps to make my transformation. I hope they can help you make the changes you want in your life, and for those of you already on your path may it serve as a reminder to what you are already doing.
I CHALLENGE YOU to make the next 90 Days the best 90 days of 2012! I would be honored to personally mentor you in your transformation! You can achieve a lot in 90 days especially when you begin to string several 90 days together.
To your success,
P.S. Message me if you would like to discover how I will mentor you through these steps over the next 90 days. Only the committed need to reply.
P.P.S. This is a critical point to note, even when you make all these changes, you will still have challenges and difficulties. The difference is that you are equipped to breakthrough them now!